One of the most painful reminders of an affair is having to see the other woman on a constant or daily basis. It's hard recovering from infidelity and restoring your marriage, when every time you see her the images of the affair haunt you and the negative thoughts chip away at your self-esteem.
It is normal to feel this way. You can always try moving away, but sometimes this is not always possible due to family or other obligations. In which case you are left to face this person who tried to destroy your marriage. What you need is a way to protect yourself, your relationship, and your honor. Under no circumstances should you allow the other woman to see you in pain and hurting. You need to cover up your emotional pain when you are in the presence of the ex-paramour or anyone in her social circle.
If it's a situation where you run into the other woman during a certain activity (such as at the gym), then you can always go to a different one. You can also choose to abandon your lifestyle and choose other places to enjoy your hobbies and other activities, where you are not likely to run into the paramour. To successfully cope with being around the ex-paramour and recovering from infidelity means you need to learn how to manage your turbulent emotions and don't let her get the better of you.
You can move past all this pain and devastation and rebuild a better-than-ever marriage with your spouse.
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